Wednesday, April 29, 2009

Grocery Savings

A homeschooling mama friend on facebook asked me about saving on groceries and I thought I’d update an old post.  Back here I posted about trying out a Cooking Day.  And then a few weeks later posted here an update to that.  I wanted to let y’all know what’s worked, what hasn’t, what’s changed, and beg you for further suggestions.
Of course, my aside, is this:  as most of you know, while I’ve been pregnant this has flown right out the window.  But I’m slowly moving back into this.  Slowly.  And I’m trying to give myself grace here.
In addition to the above posts we’ve learned a few other helpful things.  We buy whole fryer chickens instead of the frozen chicken breasts – saves a bunch – and makes a better tasting broth.  I had to get over the grossness factor, but it was so worth it for the money-saving factor.
We try to buy ground turkey – it’s usually much cheaper than the ground beef and we don’t mind any taste difference.
Lunch meat – oh my.  We go through so much of this.  The kids eat it straight from the pack for a protein snack.  We have cold sandwiches.  But our specialty is frying the meat, melting it with cheese, toasting the bread and having the best sandwiches ever!  So we try to buy those precooked, non-sliced half-ham things in the refrigerated section and have the deli slice it while we’re shopping.
The main thing I do is preparing ahead to making cooking quicker.  I don’t like fully cooked frozen meals.  They just don’t taste the same and I’m just picky that way.  But I will buy a bag of onions and use the chopper to chop them all at once, then freeze in a ziplock.  Anytime I need them I just get a few out and cook with them.  Same with bell peppers.  I brown the ground turkey, separate it by meals, and freeze.  I cook as many pancakes (with the cheapy mix) as I can at a time and freeze in one big bag.  Then pull out just as many as we need for breakfast.  I’ve only made homemade biscuits and frozen them individually once.  I didn’t feel the financial difference enough to stick with this.  When I was making my own bread, I would freeze it before the rising part of the process – then pull them out of the freezer, let rise, and bake as you normally would.  When I make apple-spice bread – I cook several fully and freeze.  Just thaw and eat.  When I boil the chicken I shred it all, and freeze separately by meals.
We buy in bulk, fix in bulk, and then when I want it pull out just what I want.
We buy the huge container of peanut butter – doesn’t last nearly as long as you would think around here.  We buy the big box of pancake mix (off-brand kind).  The big bottle of syrup and refill the little easier-to-pour bottle.  We buy the bag of popcorn kernels, and the big mix of buttery popcorn powder stuff for about $4 (what can I say?  I love the mega-movie kind!) and stove pop it.  It lasts much longer than the microwave kind – for MUCH cheaper.  I use dry beans and plan ahead for all of our chilis, stews, tacos, burritos, and such.  Much cheaper than cans.  We buy the big off-brand yogurt container fruit flavored, of course.  The flavor selection is smaller, but it’s much more cost effective – we will go through one of those in a sitting and I can control how much each child gets and actually eats.  I actually started making my own granola – saved a bunch of money and lasted a lot longer, also made a great cereal.  We buy coffee beans in the huge bag from Sam’s and grind them as we go, much more cost effective for the good tasting coffee.  We go through chocolate milk mix like it’s nothin’ around here.  I buy the big containers and usually try to buy the off-brand.
I’m wanting to make a good muffin mix in bulk and then use it like the little packets you can buy.  I haven’t done this yet, but want to – I think it will save us a bundle – any recipe suggestions here?
One of our biggest money savers I’ve found is in the laundry room – I’ll have a post up about that at Heart of the Matter soon.
I know I’ve missed plenty, but this is a good start.  I’ll think on it, you do the same, and please share your ideas with me and each other!

Thursday, April 9, 2009

12 Weeks Pregnancy Update with Baby 5

The last week of the first trimester.  And fully pregnant.  My belly’s getting bigger everyday.  Even the youngest around here pushes on it and says, “You belly get.ting bigger, Mama.”  Yep.  And evidently not all from the baby either.  When I went to the doctor yesterday the nurse informed me that I have gained 6.something pounds in the last 4 weeks and that I was “going to have to be careful.”  As I sat pondering how on earth I could be so ill and yet put on the pounds – all that couch sitting came back to me.  And the instant frozen foods, and the eating out, and the ice cream, and the chocolate milk by the gallons… and well, we get the picture.  And when I lamented to my husband the weight I had gained he so kindly figured up for me what 6 pounds a month for the next 6 months would equal.  Let’s not go there.  Really.  Because I’m already sick and all.  I did ask the doc about a solution for the sickness and he offered up some “as needed” medicine.  I’ll take it!  But as we discussed the peculiarities of my nausea, he mentioned that it sounded a little like acid reflux, which he informed me would not fade quietly away with the end of the trimester.  Beautiful.
Speaking of getting bigger, I’m gonna have to go buy some “around the house” maternity pants, because even my too-big jammie pants have stretched their elastic to their limit – they gotta slide up or below the belly now.
The inability to do anything is drifting away.  I’ve been more productive in the last week than I have in all the weeks prior combined.  I’ve picked up the house a little bit.  I’ve done a little bit of structured schoolwork.  And if the weather would continue to cooperate, I’ve even made it outside to sit on the porch a couple of times.
The baby’s doing great.  We had no trouble finding the heartbeat yesterday.  And it still brings tears to me eyes to hear it.  All the pregnancy update sites tell me the baby’s weight now registers at a 1/2 ounce and it measures about 2 1/2 inches long (approximately the size of a viennie weanie!)  The facial features continue to become more defined and it’s fingernails and toenails are forming.  And it can now swallow.
I have felt the kicks about 4 times now.  I’m sure that’s unheard of in the world of first-timer preggies, but knowing what to look for and laying really still and holding my breath I’m fairly certain that I have felt the Little One.  And this helps my down-trodden-pitiful-me-I’m-sick-all-the-time mindset.
In June we’ll be finding out the gender, if this new little one cooperates!
As far as my mental state, I seem to be more patient and understanding this time around.  For instance, BigMan (just turned 2 last month) is still sleeping in our room in his crib – I still don’t really trust the wanderer in other parts of the house yet.  And he still comes to bed with me in the middle of the night.  Part of me wants to stress on this and feels like I should begin “training” in preparation for the new baby.  However, time and experience have taught me that my stress is not needed.  That it all works out in the end whether I have fretted or not.  I have also learned that by the time the new one is here that BigMan will be a full 6 months older.  And in the world of a 2 year old that’s monumental development.  So, I’ll ride it out.  And know that it will all work out for the good.  See, Meg, I’m learning to take my own advice!!
I can’t figure out how to get my really cool pictures to upload to my ever small and outdated computer, and since my world is so visual I have a hard time posting without pictures.  But I miss hearing from all of y’all and I get so much from your feedback, so I’ll try to continue to post even without my beloved pics.

Thursday, April 2, 2009

Thanks For Your Attention

About 3 weeks ago I posted this.  I was very concerned about the future of homeschooling in Arkansas.  And with good reason.  It was to the point that my husband and I got involved in government.  And, as I said before, that is SO not us.  I called the state capitol.  (With script in hand, mind you, I get flustered, scared, intimidated easily and forget that I have the power to just say what I have to say and hang up.  My hubby had to tell me what to say and give me a pep-talk before I called.  Hate that kinda stuff.)  But I did it.  I called more than once, left my messages, and prayed.  Glad to be through with my part.
If you haven’t kept up with the progress of the bill I wanted to let you know that the HB2144 has been sent to interim study.  Which is a good thing.  This means they will not seek action on it or vote on it.  You can read all about it here.
But the main point of this post is my husband.  Because I love him.  And he cracks me.  All.The.Time.
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My husband, while researching the bill, came across Mark Martin’s personal blog.  He’s one of the state’s representatives: opposed the bill and is a homeschooling dad.  When my husband first found his blog this was the post that he had up.  My husband decided that a comment was needed and later in the day he called me and asked me what I thought of his comment.  Okay, you really ought to go read the article to get Matt’s comment.  But the gist of it is that, although Rep. Mark Martin supports homeschooling freedoms and opposed the HB2144 he thought that homeschoolers as a whole are not nearly involved enough in government.  Calling us apathetic, retreated, isolated, and insulated.  Granted, that may be true.  But my husband responded in a little bit of a different way (shocking, right?) and I was, as always, thoroughly impressed.
(I do need to say that Mark Martin came back later and posted this.  Making sure that we all know where he falls on the issue.  Pretty strong stuff.)
  1. Matt Parker Says:
    March 13th, 2009 at 9:11 am
Mr. Martin,
You say, “On both hands the retreated, isolated, and insulated homeschool community is too withdrawn from politics to have any relevance in its midst.” You then expect us to say, “How can I make positive contributions and engage in the political arena?”
Respectfully, you are missing the point Mr. Martin. We are not like you. We do not want to be involved in government. We want to be left alone by government, as you have stated. Homeschoolers are not going to suddenly invest their lives in attempting to create ‘Utopia’. We will stay in our hiding holes and fly under the radar. We will be silent. We will not choose involvement in government until our hand is forced, but if it is forced, we will be involved. The spike in attention by homeschoolers is not an indication that we desire a more integral part in government interaction. It is a reflex reaction. If you and your colleagues decide to pass legislation that is poorly designed, we will respond, but our response will not be more legislative involvement. It will be through litigation. In summary, suggest what you will, but I do not foresee droves of homeschooling parents becoming state legislators or active participants in the legislative process. It is not apathy, as you have postulated, it is just a differing world view. Keep your inefficient, bureaucratic, lack-luster education system off our toes, and there will be no “Arkansas Tea Party” of 2009.
Have I mentioned before that I love my man!