Sunday, February 13, 2011

Finishing Leviticus - A Surprising Redemption and Jubilee!

Let me start off with a few observations.  One is, if you’re wondering, I’m reading from The Message.  I know it’s a paraphrase and this has bothered me some while reading it, I personally love my American Standard Version and switch back and forth between it and the NIV, but I like how this paraphrase reads aloud for the little ones.  But this post is not a debate forum for versions of the Bible.
The one I’m reading is already well-worn and looks like this.
I feel slightly ashamed when I read about how careful the Israelites were to take such care in preparing, building, and moving the tools for God’s work.  It makes me understand a little more about why we dress our best for church, why we treat the Bible differently, why we are reverent in our worship.  (And for the record, we, as in the Parkers, have not been much at all in any of these areas).  I just have a new understanding for the old way of doing things.  That it dates back to a much older way of doing things.
Also noteworthy for me from this ancient book is that the Levites had no work of their own outside of the work of the Tabernacle.  They were to receive what they got from the first fruits of the people.  All the rest of the people that sometimes begrudged that they were God’s chosen from within God’s chosen.
And in those same veins, the materials used for building this tent in the middle of desert were the best.  The very best.  Gold everywhere for God’s tent.  In the desert.  It gives me food for thought about the church buildings of now vs. our bodies being the new temples of God.  I’m not settled or resolved about how much money a church should put into a building now days or whether my tattoo is a sin or not.  But it’s interesting nonetheless.  I like thinking about it anyway.
He started chapter 26 out with promises (lovely promises) of what would happen if His people would live by His decrees.  It was good to hear such words.  These promises were followed closely by what would happen if they refused to obey his commands.  Not lovely words, but important to know ahead of time what the consequences would be.  There are parenting pointers here if we’ll look closely.  Clear directives, clear precise expectations.  Followed by clear consequences for the refusal to obey.  And the consequences were different for unintentional transgressions versus intentional sins.  But it didn’t end there.  There was an escape clause.  A second chance.  The ability to make right what we screwed up so royally.  If we would only confess and soften our hearts.  (there’s parental application here too, did you catch it?)
We finally finished up Leviticus with the kiddos.  It was a loooong book.  Or at least it felt like it at times!  As I said before, oh the rules, the sicknesses, the blood, the sacrifices, the talk of things I don’t want to talk about yet.
But I knew it was good groundwork.  I knew it was laying a foundation for so much more to come in His story for us.  In our story.  So we kept on.  I expected the rules to keep coming but there was a surprise I didn’t remember at the end of Leviticus.  A surprise I’m sure the Israelites were surprised by as well.  If I think I’m tired of all the rules and blood I can’t imagine how they felt.  The law, though good for them, was so very extensive.  It wasn’t just the 10 commandments there were lots and lots of how-tos of living in the desert, learning to be free, healthy, and set apart as God’s people.  There’s a lot that goes into making a nation.  And it’s not always pretty or clean.
So when I got to the end of Leviticus I quietly rejoiced that we were so close to finishing this book.  And then I realized there was so much more to rejoice in.
He tells His people (and that includes you and me, you know that, right?) that there will be feasts along the way through the desert.  There will be celebrations, parties, remembrances.  And then one day, when they have observed one year of rest from the 6 years of work in the fields they will be given an entire year off.  A picture of our week.  Work six, rest one.  And he didn’t say that they would just be on their own to starve during that rest, but that the work of their hands the previous 6 years would yield enough to sustain them for the year they worked, the year they were resting, and the year they were prepping for the new working year.  He offered them a 3-in-1 deal.  And then He didn’t just offer that rest, He told them when they had worked and rested 7 rounds – 49 years, that on that 50th year they would party like they hadn’t partied before.
Because, see, though he required that they have all these sacrifices – and they were sacrifices, it wasn’t just blood and animals we’ve been reading about, it was all they had, their livelihoods, the whole of who they were and what they did.  But some couldn’t afford rams and goats and sheep.  Some didn’t have as much as others.  And for them he offered a way of giving less.  He told them birds would be acceptable when they couldn’t bring more.  He knew them and their limitations.  He offered a way.  A substitution.
But even that wasn’t enough sometimes.  Sometimes the people had to put themselves into slavery, into the work of others.  They would go, offer their land, their animals, their daily work to someone else.  Someone who could provide clothes and food for them.  Hard times come.  And they don’t just come to the unrighteous.  Oh, wait, we’re all unrighteous.  So, when you’ve worked for years and years for someone else, scratching to get ahead but never gathering enough to buy back what had once been yours.  When it all looks bleak.  God brought out the big guns.  He brought out a Jubilee.  A redemption of God proportions.  He said on that year of partying you could be redeemed.  You could get back what you had lost.  Your animals, your land, and get this.. your freedom.  Just like that.  When that year came you got a fresh start.  At the end of that winter, that week, that night you got a do over!  Not because you did everything right.  Not because you did anything right.  Just because He loves you.
I was crying by this point in my reading to the kids.  I was stopping and wiping tears and trying to explain why this was so great.  And then I tried to explain that it was more.  So much more.  Because we don’t even have to wait 49 years.  We have it.  This was foreshadowing, preparing the way in our hearts to understand and grasp what Jesus would do for us.  When we didn’t understand it or deserve it or see it coming.
{If you would like to see the rest of the observations on reading the entire Bible aloud to our kids you can see the page where I have all those posts linked.  It’s called, aptly, The Bible and Kids.}

Friday, February 11, 2011

Curriculum - A Mid-Year Review

We’ve been working right on through since August saw our new school year start.  I’ve been following my laid-out plan much closer than I have any other year, which tells me what we have going is working for us.  There is progress and that’s always a good thing.  There will be a lot of things continued that we’ve started.  And there will be a few changes.  Curriculum is on my mind since tax return is here and the kids are finishing up/ready for some new things.  Here’s our beginning of the year curriculum post for a comparison.
Here’s where we stand mid-year.
Geography, World History – We’re still using Mystery of History and loving it.  Here’s how we’re using the history curriculum with notebooks.  We’ve also added in a study of the 50 states of the United States of America.  I realized the two older boys didn’t their cities from their states from their countries, so we picked out one of our National Geographic books on the U.S. that we have, grabbed a notebook, and started learning the states, their capitals, and their regions.
Bible – As you know we’ve started reading through the Bible and discussing it.  I still want to do a study on character at some point, but we’re going to finish reading through first.
American History – The boys are still reading through their A Beka history books.  The 7 year old is very, very close to finishing his 1st grade book and he’ll move right into the second grade book.  We’re still using these as read on their owns and then they sum up what they’ve read and I go over the comprehension questions with them orally.
Science – We’re still going (rather slowly) through the Astronomy book.  But we’re enjoying it.  I’m not having my 7 year old do lapbooks on the side right now.  I doesn’t like them and he’s doing well the notebooking of Astronomy.  My 9 year old is voluntarily doing animal lapbooks.  He picks them out, I print them (instructions included) and hand it over to him.  He comes back in a few days with a completed lapbook and presents it to me.  His latest was on the Giant Panda.  I’m pretty amazed by this process, by the way.
Read-Alouds – We’ve mostly set aside read-alouds while I’m reading through the Bible.  It’s taking all the time and effort we have.  I’m reading small preschool read-louds first while the 3 and 5 year olds are still awake and then I move into the Bible reading.
Art and Music – we’re not doing much of anything.  This is one that is not working for us currently.  I need to find some art appreciation with some hands on material for us.  Left up to me to wing it right now is not happening.  Suggestions?
Handwriting – I changed up a couple of things from what I had planned.  The 9 year old is finishing up the Handwriting Without Tears cursive workbook.  I’m not sure what I’ll have him do next, but it will be a continuation with cursive practice.  The 7 year old wanted to learn cursive and I said, “Sure!”  So I started him in the same Handwriting Without Tears cursive book at the beginning and he’s doing great.  My kindergarten girl has been working through the italics book I had originally laid out for the 7 year old and is doing fine.  She also wants to start cursive soon, so I’ll go ahead and move her into it as well.  I’ve looked at both arguments for and against starting cursive early and I’ll take it child by child according to ability and desire.  So far, we’re doing great learning manuscript first and then cursive right on the heels of that.
Spelling – I still am not using a specific spelling curriculum and I have no problems with that.  I answer their questions, correct their misspellings, and teach them the rules.  It’s working.  I’m not changing it yet.
Language Arts – The 7 and 9 year olds are finishing up those workbooks we started on.  And I’ve been considering whether we’ll move to the other worksheets I have or if I’ll start Rod & Staff Preparing to Build set.  After reading Kathi’s review of it I was in love.  Then I checked out their samples on their site.  After talking to my oldest about the Bible based feel of it he was very excited.  My 7 year old does well with bland worksheets: he doesn’t mind them and he seems to retain some of the info well.  But my oldest hates them: sees them as pointless, monotonous and can’t seem to retain what he doesn’t see as important.  All of this is making this curriculum look all the better for us.  The series doesn’t start until 2nd grade and though that’s below grade level for us and will actually be a review of what we’re working on right now, I like that it’s a series that will build upon itself and that it explains the “whys” of each concept, not just rote memorization.  I’m leaning heavily toward getting this.
Math – Math-U-See is working marvelously for us!  We love it!  I’m using Alpha with the 7 and 9 year olds.  When we get to a new lesson I put in the dvd, watch it with them, and assign the first worksheet to each of them.  Because it’s really easy for them at this point I’m splitting on workbook.  Anything they need extra practice on I go to the official website, type in the lessons I want included, and then print off the worksheets.  We’re halfway through Alpha at this point.  I’ll be ordering Beta soon and the Primer workbook for my girl.  I’m sold on them.
I love that our year is going as smoothly as it is.  The smoothest yet.  I love having found a flexible groove.  How’re you doing?  What’re you using?  What’s working?  What’s not?  I love talking curriculum!

Monday, February 7, 2011

Turning Corners

I know when we started having all these little sweeties that people further down the parenting road told us that it wouldn’t always be as hard as it was in the very early years.  As in 3 under 5 and pregnant again.  But it’s hard to imagine how having more kids gets easier.  I’m there.  And it is crazy.  Another thing other parents told me was that there’s this turning point when your oldest turns 10.  I also could not imagine that.  Granted, my oldest is only 9 1/2, but it’s already changing.
Here are a few of the things that have changed around here.
The other night I had fixed a reasonably large late lunch and decided cereal was in order for dinner.  When I told the kids that, not only were they excited they went about getting dinner ready.  On their own.  They cleaned off the table, got the bowls and everything needed and then proceeded to fix their younger siblings cereal too.  Wow.  Then they took their bowls, dumped them in the trash, and cleaned the table up again.  I remember a few short years ago I didn’t even allow cereal in my house because the mess was just too much for me to take on.
It had been a long day of in and out of the snow and I had showered, then bathed the younger 3 kids earlier in the evening (since they were cold when they came in from playing and bathtime takes up a considerable amount of housebound crazy time for littles).  It was close to bedtime and I realized the 2 olders hadn’t bathed yet.  I sighed inwardly because this head cold has me tired, lazy, and selfish.  Then I realized how old they were and that I could say, from my chair no less, “Hey, guys, go get your showers, please, it’s almost bedtime.”  And with that they ran off with no help from me.  Wow.
When I tell the crew that we are going to town for a doctor’s appointment I say, “Go get your go to town clothes laid out, brush your teeth, and potty.”  I still only have to start getting ready to go about an hour before we need to leave.  Because 3 of the children do these things themselves.  I still only have 2 small children and myself to dress.
Four of the 5 children can buckle and unbuckle themselves in the van.
Four of the 5 children have chores that – for the most part – I can tell them to do and then I can go get in the shower to get ready (with Baby in the swing or saucer or shower with me) and they do them.  So, not only can we get ready for town quicker, I can leave a house that is relatively picked up.
My 3 oldest can read.  Even the girl can read well enough now to start the shows that are dvr’d and recognizable for herself, and her 3 and 1 year old brothers.  They can skip their own commercials and “bad parts” of kids movies (think: the attack scene in Tarzan that they hate).
I can assign some school work for the 2 olders and be there for instruction and questions, but for the most part they can do their own work.  You know, compared to the labor intensive (yet more fun!) years of preschool and kindergarten.
Last night as Baby was playing with Matt and me alone I mentioned to Matt that this Baby has had more one-on-one time with us than any others since The Oldest.  (To which Matt replied, “Good, maybe this one won’t be messed up like we messed up the others – he has the best of both worlds – 4 siblings AND he’s an only child!”  But we’re not talking about that!)  And he does.  The 2 oldest boys were playing the PS2 in our bedroom together and the girl and the nearly 4 year old were playing in the bath together.  Paired off like they often are.  While we played with Baby and watched the Super Bowl.  Weird.  But nice.
These same friends who told me these things also said some not so glowing things about the teenage years.  But I choose to not worry about those days until those worries are here and real.  That’s a worry for another day.
I say these things to you so that you won’t believe the hype.  Don’t buy into the lies that more kids double, triple, and quadruple the work load.  It’s not like having 6 toddlers or babies all at once.  That’s another thing one of Matt’s mentors (who have 4 kids close in age) told us early on.  The work doesn’t multiple exponentially.  It just doesn’t.  It is harder than one child, I’m sure.  But not like you would think.  Don’t buy the hype.  Have those babies you want.  If you have, and you’re in the “they’re all so little and I can’t do this any longer” phase – hold on.  It gets easier.  I promise.  I know.
And try to find the joy in these chaotic moments.  Because before long they are behind the corners you’ve already rounded.  And though it will be a joyous occasion, you will wonder with a twinge of sadness, at how quickly they’re gone.  And how you have no idea where they went.
Don’t buy the hype.  Revel in the present.  Enjoy those babies.  And the new milestones as well!

Saturday, February 5, 2011

Deviled Eggs


Which, by the way, in my head is totally spelled “devilled”.
Ingredients
  • 12 boiled eggs peeled* and sliced in half
  • 1/2 cup mayonnaise
  • 2 teaspoons mustard
  • 1 teaspoon vinegar
  • 1/4 teaspoon salt
  • 1/2 teaspoon pepper
  • paprika for garnish
Directions
  1. Scoop yolks out of boiled eggs (by gently pushing from the outside of the egg to pop them out)
  2. Place yolks in a separate mixing bowl.  Set egg whites aside (in one of those nifty deviled egg trays if you have, if, like me you don’t, then just use a casserole dish)
  3. Mix all above ingredients (except for the paprika) together with yolks using a fork to mash it all together well
  4. Scoop mix back into egg whites and sprinkle paprika on top for garnish
*I asked my friends on Facebook (and my sister!) how to get the egg shells off without peeling all the whites off with them.  Here are the suggestions I tried that worked beautifully!  Use older eggs (not rotten, obviously, just not super fresh).  I put them in a pot and covered them with cold water.  Then brought the water to a boil and boiled them for somewhere between 5 and 10 minutes.  I think that’s longer than everybody suggests, but I’m paranoid that way.  Then I removed them from the heat, drained off the boiling water and ran cold water into the pot over them.  I let them set for a few minutes.  Then I ran each one under cold water, tapped them, cracked them, and peeled them under the cold running water.  No problems, beautiful eggs!
My family eats these for snacks (though they don’t last long!)  This is an easy recipe to double or triple if you’re taking it to a family gathering too.
Enjoy!